Just in case you have never heard of the missionary position, the missionary position is when a man lays on top of a woman and inserts his penis whilst laying on top of her. It’s an easy position and can also provide a lot of joy for the man and woman!!

One of the best things I love about this position is it allows for an emotional connection as well. You and your lover can both see each other, watch if you like (which can add another little added extra) and also allows you access to kiss your lover, whether it be their mouth, neck, ears or nipples. You can have hands on access to your partner and pull them in closer when you need.

The missionary position is also an easy position to convert to other positions. Your partner can go to a kneeling position which can allow you to lift your legs and rest them on his chest allowing a deeper penetration and giving him quite a view to watch which can really send each of you over!! It’s also an easy position to roll over and swap, letting you go on top and take control!! However kinky or laid back your sex life is, don’t forget an oldie but a goodie, the missionary position can definitely be pleasing for everyone; you don’t have to preform acrobatics to enjoy a good sex position!!

So you love your vibrator and have a lover but not to sure if they’ll love each other, keep reading and you might just see how bringing them together will create a mind blowing experience for all concerned.
The biggest worry about when introducing your vibrator to your partner is that they may feel intimidated or worried that they’re not performing up to standard. This is where you need to educate him a little in a gentle way.
Let him know that it’s just not your vibrator that gets you off, its him and you still need him, and that the toy isn’t just for you but for him as well. Letting him know that the toy is for you both and that you will both enjoy it can help ease the intimidation if he’s feeling any. Involve him the purchase telling him exactly what you could do to him with it and what he could do to you. If intimidation is a big worry at first, pick something which is small and in no way resembles a penis so he doesn’t feel like there is any competition at all. Once he’s comfortable he’ll be more than happy for you to expand your collection
Educate yourself as well. Find out about the male erogenous zones and the perineum spot (if his comfortable enough) and exactly how you could tease him with your vibrator, he’ll never again question having a vibe in your drawer once he’s found how well you can use it. There are also special vibes out there just for men. Feeling what it can do for him, he’ll be more than keen to please you with it and won’t be questioning any further purchases you may have in mind.
If you think he could handle a bold move why not use it in front of him and surprise him, he’ll be sure to be turned on and definitely won’t mind ‘helping out’. All in all getting your partner and vibrator to get along will be about being open with your partner letting him know how you feel about him and making decisions together. Getting your vibe involved will definitely be a good time had by all.

With Christmas fast approaching, why not give your partner the best 12 Days of Christmas they’ll remember for every Christmas to come:

For the first day of Christmas start of small and slip into your partners morning shower giving him a pleasurable body wash with perhaps a little tugging action, ensuring the shower is one to remember.

For the second day of Christmas cook your partner a fabulous meal in a mini skirt, ensuring every time you bend over he gets a view to remember, you may not get your dinner cooked but your partner sure won’t be complaining.

For the third day of Christmas slip into a sexy little lingerie number just before bed, ensuring you’re strutting yourself, dragging him to the bedroom with you.

For the fourth day of Christmas after your partner returns home from work, why not take off his shirt and lay him down giving him an enjoyable massage that will be sure to release his tension from the day.

For the fifth day of Christmas give him a little present a love toy just for him, there are many available such as the  Juicy Mouth or a vibrator just for him!

For the sixth day of Christmas serve him his favourite beer whilst topless, a topless waitress will be the last thing he expects to see in his living room!

For the seventh day of Christmas go to bed a little earlier than him and lay there naked waiting for him, I’m sure he’ll know what your intentions are.

For the eighth day of Christmas send him naughty text messages throughout the day detailing what you have waiting for him when his home.

For the ninth day of Christmas send your lover a naughty image of yourself whilst he’s not at home, and get him thinking of you for the rest of the day.

For the tenth day of Christmas prepare an erotic dance and leave him gobsmacked with your sexy moves.

For the eleventh day of Christmas blow his mind and before he wakes up. Roll on top of him and take control, he’ll be definitely waking up on the right side of the bed!

And for the twelfth day of Christmas give him what he always wanted a blow job to rock his socks off!! It will definitely be a Christmas to remember!!!

Now here’s an article to leave open on your web browser for your partner or to print out and leave somewhere where he will find it, like perhaps in the middle of the fridge! Here’s an opportunity for him to take twelve days and spoil you!!

For the first day of Christmas grab the massage oil and take away the stresses of the day.

For the second day of Christmas leave a gift on the bed, perhaps a sexy little lingerie number that you know will look fantastic on her.

For the third day of Christmas pull out that special love toy box and get her favourite toy, surprise her when she gets into bed, and use it how you know she likes it best.

For the fourth day of Christmas arouse her and then let her take control.

For the fifth day of Christmas book her favourite restaurant and take her out for a night in the day, don’t forget the night doesn’t have to stop when you get home.

For the sixth day of Christmas get into the romance of Christmas, light some candles, pull out the rose petals and sensually indulge each other.

For the seventh day of Christmas call up the florist and order her favourite flowers, after all every girl loves a surprise delivery.

For the eighth day of Christmas leave love notes in all the places you know she will look reminding her how special she is.

For the ninth day of Christmas why not treat her to a day at the hair salon, she’ll love the treat especially just before Christmas!

For the tenth day of Christmas surprise her with all the housework and cooking for the day, it will definitely be a day for her to enjoy!

For the eleventh day of Christmas grab some strips of satin and tie her up, pleasure her until she loses control.

And for the twelfth day of Christmas indulge her, put all the pleasurable acts you know that please her together and give her the best night of her life!